Building for Eternity
Archive for August, 2007
Repentance vs Remorse
Aug 31st
Genesis 3 records the low point of human history. Adam and Eve disobey God. When God walks in the garden they feel bad (remorse) but fail to repent, instead choosing to hide. When God confronts them they then try to avoid responsibility (Adam blames Eve, Eve blames the Serpent). This is a fairly natural response as most of us struggle to carry the guilt for the wrong we have done in life.
The bible contrasts these actions with those of Jesus. He came to earth and not only accepted responsibility for His own actions but for all of us as well. He took the punishment for all our accumulated wickedness (as he had none of his own).
Jesus offers salvation. We accept salvation by going further than just feeling sorry. We are called to acknowledge our responsibility for the wrongs we have done. Thank God for Jesus’ sacrifice in our place and commit to living differently in the future. True repentance means changing the way we live.
Stephen Semenchuk
I Can’t Remember…
Aug 24th
This week the potential future Labor Prime Minister has found his past actions under close scrutiny. Since his elevation to leader of his party his opponents have searched for information to tarnish his image. Finally an event from 2003 surfaces and he is asked to explain his actions in a “gentleman’s club”. His reply: “I can’t remember exactly what happened”. It is a typical politicians answer.
The whole incident begs reflection. What standard do we expect from our leaders? Given that even a Prime Minister is human and subject to temptation, mistakes, errors of judgment and sin, how forgiving should his people be? In the end if we have seen the worst they can dredge up against Kevin Rudd has he really lived purely enough to be elected Prime Minister?
The Bible does hold our Christian Leaders to very high standards. It speaks of leaders being “above reproach”. Yet our church leaders are human and likely to make mistakes. “Above Reproach” means that our leaders must repent openly of their sin and live lives consistently orientated towards Love, Obedience and Loyalty. Sometimes our mistakes are too great in consequence to remain in leadership but never too great to receive God’s forgiveness and grace.
God promises us that because of Jesus’ death in our place, He will not remember our sins!
Stephen Semenchuk
Your ideas for Walking Across the …
Aug 17th
As followup from to the Just a Walk Across The… article, here are your responses:
- Be involved in community activities – hobbies, sports, community action groups, play groups
- Join the local Mothers Group
- Be involved in local chamber of commerce, sports clubs
- Invite neighbours & friends to social game of squash on regular basis
- Engage in your local school community – Parents and friends, canteen helper, Scripture Teacher, etc.
- Help improve your local area
- Invite a friend or neighbour for a surf
- Play sports with your neighbours
- Make friends with my children’s sports parents
- Start a women’s craft group and invite the neighbours and community along
- World Cancer Day, join in raising money for cancer – join a walk etc
- Aust. Biggest Morning Tea, invite someone to the church one or have your own
- World Environment Day – invite neighbours to go for a picnic, bush walk or meet at the park
- National Diabetes Week – invite those you know who are touched by diabetes, swap recipes – have helpful info on hand
- Invite your neighbours to activities that interest them, snooker, fishing, walking
- Drop a church brochure into a new neighbour
- Show kindness to your neighbours and their children
- Chat regularly with your neighbours
- Give a gift of something we make ourselves to our neighbour for no reason
- Share your home-grown excess produce
- Offer to pray for or with a neighbour who is ill
- If neighbours don’t have kids – make a fuss of their pets instead.
- Chat to local neighbours when you see them at the corner shop
- New neighbours – go introduce yourself – leave them with your name & phone no & tell them to ring if they need any help/info
- New neighbours – offer them advice on local shops, services, schools etc.
- Tell your neighbours, friends, hairdresser what you do during the week – attend church, bible study, church programs
- Share what you did over the weekend/week with your work mates – church, bible study etc.
- A smile – can do wonders
- Que at the same checkout and have a conversation with the person serving you, tell them what you are doing when they ask
- Stop and say g’day when you see neighbours and friends
- Chat to those waiting for trains and buses
- Be a good listener to your workmates, friends & neighbours
- Visit those ill and recovering while in hospital
- Keep in contact with old friends make sure you care about them
- Introduce yourself to new work mates or class mates
- Send cards – to celebrate events – birthdays, becoming grandparents, when people are sick etc
- Sit with different people I don’t know at the Village dining room & get to know them
- Christmas – give your neighbours cards – or maybe a small gift
- Open house – and invite neighbours
- Invite newcomers to a meal at your place
- Invite neighbours to a BBQ
- Take a meal to a neighbour who is sick
- Invite neighbours on picnics & family outings
- Invite neighbours to lunch after church – bring them to church with you first
- New neighbours – take them a cake
- Organise a street BBQ or party
- Host a Morning Tea for the teachers of your local school – get neighbours to help
- Pub Team – visitation – go have a drink with the locals and make your self known (but with restraint)
- Invite your friends to XL events – they’re really cool (age appropriate)
- Organise a supper for the Youth Parents
- Gather some Christian friends and non Christian friends and invite them all to dinner
- Invite your work mates to special church activities
- Invite those who use our car parks during the week to an afternoon tea or ?
- Cooking for your neighbours
- Invite playgroups Mums to special events for women and to special church services
- Invite neighbours for coffee
- Host a bible study & invite friends and neighbours
- Invite people to a Card’s Night, Bush walking, bike riding
- Use special calendar events throughout the year & invite non Christian friends, family & neighbours to eg New Year
- New Years Day – have a street picnic/party – play cricket etc.
- Australia Day – host a real Aussie Barbie
- Pancake Day – host Breaky or brunch of pancakes
- International Women’s Day – invite all the women around to have a girly day
- St Patrick’s Day – host a green party & get people to bring an Irish joke to share
- Easter – invite to Easter at the lake – with Breaky first
- National Youth Week – celebrate our kids – have a picnic or party at school (ask permission first)
- National Mother Week – have a mother’s meeting at a park or at your home – celebrate being a Mum
- International Day of Families – invite another family for a meal and games
- Queen’s Birthday – have a royal party ball, make it formal – get everyone to wear a Tiara (females only)
- Independence Day – have an American party, hotdogs, etc – watch American football or baseball together
- International Youth Day – invite a bunch of kids/youth over to share with your kids/youth – have a party for them
- Football Grand final – invite the boys around – or anyone who enjoys the sports
- October Girls Night In – throughout October host girly nights – pamper nights, craft nights etc.
- Melbourne Cup Day – host your own day – wear hats, invite your neighbours and friends, watch it on the telly
- Thank you Day – invite neighbours in for coffee – thank them for being your neighbours
- Christmas – make sure your neighbours are not alone, if they are invite them to join you
- Say grace – tell visitors why you say grace
- Use music to bring up Christianity – share your fav. Christian band
- Use music to bring up Christianity – play with non-Christian bands
- Organise a Christian band and offer to play free at local venues
- Use my gifts in music to connect with others interested in music
- Discuss Christian music with those interested in music, lend them a copy of your music.
- Bringing music and friendship to those shut in at Nursing Homes
- Invite neighbours to share your bin for their overflow
- Collect mail for neighbours when they are away
- Watch neighbours homes when they are away (for security)
- Walk a neighbours dog for them if they are ill or elderly
- Bring a neighbours washing in for them – when its dry
- Watering a neighbours garden (on allotted days)
- Bringing in a neighbours garbage bin for them
- Lend your tools to your neighbours
- Lend garden equipment to your neighbours
- Offer to do a neighbours ironing if they are ill
- Offer to do the shopping for those ill or elderly or car less
- Offer a lift to Doctors or shopping for those ill or elderly or car less
- Inviting your children’s friends over & taking them to church or Kids Club
- Offer to baby-sit a neighbours young children so they can get their shopping done quickly with out the children
- Offer to mind a neighbours pet when they go away.
- If you have a water tank – offer to wash a neighbours car when you was yours.
- Help neighbours with minor maintenance problems if you know how to help
- Offer to mow a neighbours lawn for them
- If you find a good handyman, painter etc. recommend them to your neighbours
- If you have a great garden – open it up for people to take some solitude in and time out to pray
- Give your seat to an elderly person or a Mum with kids on the train or bus
- Hold doors open for people who have their hands full or are elderly
- Offer to push an older person’s trolley to their car for them
- Pickup dangerous items and rubbish at your local park (place in bin)
- Help neighbours with building projects, sewing projects or repair of cars etc.
- Organise working bees on a home for the infirmed or elderly living alone
- NSW Seniors Week – get your kids/youth group to do something for the seniors of the community
- Anzac Day – help the elderly or take some kids to the dawn service then have a Aussie Breaky together
- Use your holidays to go on Mission (eg Beach Missions)
- Invite neighbours to special events held at DAC – eg Gingerbread, Carols, special services, Breaky
- Stick to the Road Rules – and have a fish sticker so people can identify you as a Christian
- Be polite when driving, allow people in and be a good example
- Buy a bible for a friend who hasn’t got one
- Don’t give up on inviting your friends or neighbours to activities at church
- Talk to children, grandchildren as you spend time with them about our great God
- Introduce yourself as a Christian
- Invite your neighbours to church with you
- Live differently – be in the world but not of the world
- Pray for God to give opportunities to share our lives with our family, friends or neighbours
- Invite my friends to attend youth group with me
- Use Christian posters & pictures in your workplace – that can then lead to conversations
- Put notices and invites up about church activities at your school, club or community centre (ask permission first)
- Follow-up Anglican’s who live in my street but to go to church
- Use your computer to let people know you are a Christian – send them on thought provoking Christian material
- Pray – asking wisdom – as we chat about our church activities
- Mothers Day – invite people along to church with you – then share a meal together
- Celebrate Christmas in July – make it about Jesus – celebrate Jesus not only at Christmas Time
- Fathers Day – invite fathers and their families to church – let the men have a day off – to do what ever – golf etc.
Just a Walk Across the… (Part 2)
Aug 17th
Continued from Just a Walk Across the…
It has been an inspiring week! As we have put together the list of ideas to build bridges to our neighbours, colleagues, and friends, we are encouraged by the creativity, commitment and dedication of so many of our members.
Here are a few ideas to stir your imagination; you’ll find more great ideas inside this bulletin and on our website www.daptoanglican.org.au.
- Be involved in community groups & activities – hobbies, sports, community action groups, play groups, etc.
- Invite neighbours for a coffee or BBQ.
- Engage in your local school community – Parents and friends, P&C, canteen helpers, scripture teachers, etc.
- Make friends with your children’s sports parents.
- Invite newcomers to a meal at your place.
- Show kindness to your neighbours and their children.
- Tell your neighbours, friends, hairdresser what you do during the week – attend church, bible study, church programs; invite them.
- Invite your children’s friends to our Children’s Programs & drive them there & home again.
- Give your seat to the elderly or a mum with kids on the bus/train.
- Live differently – be in the world but not of the world.
- Talk to children/grandchildren about our great God
- Offer to push an older person’s grocery trolley to their car.
- Invite neighbours to special events held at DAC – eg: Gingerbread, carols, special services, breakfasts.
- Be a good listener to your workmates, friends & neighbours.
- Easter – invite to Easter at the lake – with breaky first.
So now lets continue or if you haven’t tried before, lets get busy walking across the…
Stephen Semenchuk
Just a Walk Across the…
Aug 10th
Last year, over 14% of Australians who filled in the Census nominated “No Religion” as their preference (up over 2.2%). Meanwhile 17% of the population indicated “Anglican” (down 2.2%). Further research has indicated that around 65% of the population would rarely consider attending a church and are not aware of even knowing a person who currently goes to any church!
The challenge of being a “kingdom of priests”, a people belonging to God and introducing others to our Lord and Saviour, is becoming harder and more urgent! At the same time the best approach is relational, natural and trumpeted by our loving lifestyle. We don’t need more programs, we need Christians who use their networks and opportunities to simply be friendly, caring and intentionally Christian.
Each of us need to “Just walk across the …… room, road, shopping aisle, backyard, office, factory, lecture theatre, gym, sporting field…. and say “hello”. We should work out random acts of kindness (things like baking a few extra biscuits and giving them to a neighbour or bringing their bins in for them or ???). We should work out some non-threatening ways of building friendships (build on your interests by inviting a neighbour to join you—playing cards, going to a movie, sharing a coffee or a meal, going on a walk or a fishing trip or ????)
Today we are giving you our new Dapto Anglican Church brochure.
IT IS FOR YOU TO GIVE AWAY!
We challenge each of you to be alert to the new people who move into your street and go and say “hello” soon after they move in. Take the brochure and give them an invite to our church “if they are interested”.
- We are asking you to tell us your ideas of how you “Just Walk Across the Room/Road” etc.
- Today, please fill in the slip included in this bulletin & give it to the service leader or place in the offertory plate. [Or Leave a Reply - Phil B]
- Next week we will publish a list of ideas & simple ways that you use when “Walking across the…”
Stephen Semenchuk
Continued at Just a Walk Across the… (Part 2)